Autism is classed as a disability, with lifelong neurodivergence meaning individuals think, feel and communicate with themselves, other people and the world differently.
At its core, autism presents as difficulties with social interactions, communication, and restrictive or repetitive behaviours. Sensory processing needs are often indicators of autism, as well as PDA, although these are considered profile presentations rather than diagnostic criteria.
One of the difficulties with autism is the complexity around diagnosis, co-morbidity and public/media descriptions suggesting that ‘everyone is on the spectrum’. I like to think of the spectrum not as a straight line of traits, but as a dart board. Imagine reaching, carefully, into a bucket full of darts with all the traits and expressions of autism in it, then throwing your handful at the dart board…that would be your experience of autism, another handful would be a different experience of the spectrum for someone else.
Co-morbidity is a problem because of the overlap between autism and other clinical disorders and mental health presentations. Stimming in autism could also look like fidgeting in ADHD, both intended to self sooth. Hyperfocus and rigidity of thinking in autism can also look like intensity in ADHD. This is why I follow the latest movement suggesting many of these diagnoses exist under an umbrella of neurodiversity - all different ways of thinking/feeling/communicating – such as dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia.
PAUSE TO CONSIDER
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and trauma-related conditions such as PTSD or C-PTSD can appear very similar due to overlapping social, emotional, and behavioural features. Both may involve sensory sensitivities, communication difficulties, social withdrawal, repetitive behaviours, and emotional dysregulation, which can lead to misdiagnosis. The key difference is that autism is a lifelong neurodevelopmental condition present from early childhood, whereas trauma responses develop after distressing events. Careful, specialised assessment is essential, as trauma can mimic or coexist with autism.
AUTISM
HOW CAN I HELP?
DIAGNOSIS DISCUSSIONS
I see neurodiversity as a great gift – often children with a new diagnosis are encouraged to view it as a superpower. Autistic people often prefer processes over people, but I think one of my gifts is to connect both camps. In these diagnosis discussions I make sense of a diagnosis, the traits that are seen and the associated behaviour so that the unseen is brought to life and greater understanding and acceptance is developed.
These discussions are particularly effective where children do not accept their diagnosis or have never discussed what it might mean to them. I also find that parents experience great relief when they talk with me about a potential diagnosis for their child and how they manage their child’s behaviour. Schools also express gratitude for being able to translate between different presentations and home and school, building a clearer picture of what masking might look like.
INDIVIDUAL THERAPY
I work with people of all ages where neurodiversity is present. Sessions include psychoeducation around what autism is and how it presents for you, as an individual. We also work through how you experience the world and build a picture of self beyond autism.
PAUSE TO CONSIDER
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and trauma-related conditions such as PTSD or C-PTSD can appear very similar due to overlapping social, emotional, and behavioural features. Both may involve sensory sensitivities, communication difficulties, social withdrawal, repetitive behaviours, and emotional dysregulation, which can lead to misdiagnosis. The key difference is that autism is a lifelong neurodevelopmental condition present from early childhood, whereas trauma responses develop after distressing events. Careful, specialised assessment is essential, as trauma can mimic or coexist with autism.
NAS TEEN LIFE
The National Autistic Society’s Teen Life programme is for parents and carers of young autistic people aged 10 - 16.
There are six sessions, running up to two hours each, covering:
understanding autism
understanding autistic identity
stress and anxiety/understanding behaviour
health and wellbeing
puberty
education/planning for the future.
One of the greatest benefits of the programme is the connections built between the parents on the course, who usually set up a WhatsApp or similar group to support each other outside the programme.
I can run the Teen Life programme at schools, charity premises, anywhere your organisation can support a room of between 6-12 caregivers, myself and another presenter, as well as a presentation screen and possibly some snacks! I also offer the programme online.